Beyond the “Daughter Default”: How Modern Families Are Redefining Elder Care
Photo By: Raj TuladharFor generations, caring for an aging parent came with an unspoken family script: daughters were expected to step in. That expectation is changing.As gender roles evolve and families become more geographically dispersed, caregiving is increasingly becoming a negotiated responsibility rather than one automatically assigned to a daughter. But removing the old default does not necessarily make caregiving simpler. Instead, families must answer a new set of questions: Who can help? What can they realistically contribute? How should responsibilities be divided? And how can an older adult remain in control of decisions about their own life?Jim Prussak, CEO of Applause Home Care, sees the shift as an opportunity to rethink caregiving altogether.“We are seeing a gradual shift from ‘the daughter will take care of Mom and Dad’ toward…



